Enough to cover what your family would still need if your income stopped: everyday living costs for the years they would depend on you, debts like the mortgage, and goals like the kids' education, minus the savings and coverage you already have. A quick rule of thumb is a starting point, but adding up your own numbers gives a better answer.
There is no single right number, and anyone who quotes you one without asking about your family is guessing. The good news is that the math is simple once you know what to count. Below is a step-by-step way to estimate your own amount, the common shortcuts and where they fall short, and how to pick a term length to match.
Start with the job you want the policy to do
Life insurance replaces money your family would lose if you died. The National Association of Insurance Commissioners (NAIC) suggests starting with a few questions (NAIC Life Insurance Buyer's Guide):
- Does anyone depend on you financially?
- How much of the family income do you provide?
- How would your family pay final expenses and repay debts?
- Do you want to leave money to family or a cause you care about?
- If you have coverage through work, is it enough?
Your answers tell you what the policy has to cover and for how long. That second part matters just as much, because with term life insurance you choose both the amount and the number of years.
A simple way to add it up
Many agents use a needs-based worksheet that works like this: add up what your family would need, then subtract what they would already have.
Step 1: What your family would need
- Income replacement. The yearly amount your household would be short without your paycheck, multiplied by the number of years they would need it. For many families that is until the youngest child finishes school.
- The mortgage. The remaining balance, if you want your family to be able to pay off the house or keep making payments without strain.
- Other debts. Car loans, credit cards, private student loans, or a business loan you personally guaranteed.
- Childcare and education. If a surviving parent would need paid childcare, count it. Add what you hope to set aside for college or trade school.
- Final expenses. Funeral costs, final medical bills, and the cost of settling your estate.
Step 2: What your family would already have
- Savings and investments your family could actually use (not retirement money they would rather leave alone).
- Life insurance you already own, including coverage through work.
- Social Security survivor benefits, if your spouse or children would qualify. Eligibility depends on age, disability, and other rules (SSA: Who can get survivor benefits).
Step 3: Cover the gap
Need minus what is already there is your coverage gap. That is a reasonable target for a new term policy. If the full amount does not fit your budget, some coverage is better than none, and you can review it again as your income grows.
What about the rules of thumb?
You will see shortcuts like "buy 10 times your income." The NAIC notes that some experts suggest five to eight times current income, but says working through your actual needs gives a more accurate number (NAIC: Life insurance). A multiple of income is quick, but it ignores how big your mortgage is, how many kids you have, how old they are, and what you have already saved. Two people with the same salary can need very different amounts.
Another shortcut is to think in four buckets: debts, income, mortgage, and education. It is a handy checklist, and it is basically the worksheet above without the subtraction step.
Don't forget the people who don't earn a paycheck
A stay-at-home parent may not bring home a salary, but replacing what they do, such as childcare, school runs, and running the household, costs real money. Many families insure both parents for that reason. The NAIC also points to "the value of the services you provide" as part of the calculation.
Is coverage through work enough?
Often it is not. Group life through an employer is a nice benefit, but it is usually a set amount or a small multiple of salary. The NAIC's buyer's guide notes that workplace coverage is usually less than you need, and you may not be able to take it with you if you leave the job (NAIC Life Insurance Buyer's Guide). It makes sense to count it, but not to rely on it alone.
Match the term length to the need
The amount and the length work together. A common approach is to pick a term that lasts until your biggest obligation ends, such as the years left on your mortgage or the years until your youngest is on their own. Some people buy two smaller policies with different lengths instead of one big one, so coverage steps down as needs shrink. This is sometimes called laddering.
If your main concern is the house, our comparison of mortgage protection and term life walks through how each one handles a home loan. If you also want some coverage that lasts for life, see how whole life cash value works.
Revisit the number over time
Your need changes. A new baby, a bigger house, a raise, or paying off debt can all move the number up or down. The NAIC recommends reviewing your coverage every few years to keep up with changes in your income and needs (NAIC). Also check that your beneficiaries are still who you want.
The bottom line
Add up what your family would need, subtract what they would already have, and cover the gap for as long as they would depend on you. If you want help running the numbers, an independent agent can do it with you and compare term policies from several carriers. Request a free quote, or read our term life insurance guide first.
Frequently asked questions
Is there a rule of thumb for how much life insurance to buy?
Rules like 10 times your income are common, and the NAIC notes some experts suggest five to eight times income. They are only a starting point. Adding up your family's actual needs and subtracting existing savings and coverage gives a more accurate number.
Does a stay-at-home parent need life insurance?
Many families decide yes. A stay-at-home parent may not earn a paycheck, but replacing childcare, transportation, and household work after their death can cost a lot. The amount is usually based on what it would cost to replace those services.
Should I count the life insurance I have through work?
Count it, but don't rely on it alone. Workplace coverage is often a set amount or a small multiple of salary, and it may end if you leave the job.
Can I add more term coverage later?
Usually you can apply for another policy later, but the price depends on your age and health at that time, and you have to qualify again. Some people buy a bit more now or use two policies with different lengths to plan ahead.
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This article is general and educational, not an offer to sell insurance or financial, tax, or legal advice. Coverage, benefits, and availability vary by carrier, product, and state, and all coverage is subject to underwriting.
